My father also was a MAGAt, up until his death. I’m pretty sure it’s not genetic, thankfully.

If you do start to thin, there are a ton of treatments to prevent and reverse it. As long as you get on them early, you’ll likely not notice much of a difference. I was just super poor when I started balding, so I didn’t have a choice. Now those poor follicles are toast.

If it helps comfort you, I’m an enby, phenotypically male, bald as a cue ball, and my natural testosterone is so high I’m practically a teen despite actually being three times older. I am and always have been left AF and a fierce supporter of human rights, including bodily autonomy. I had an incident earlier in life which led to my testosterone temporarily dipping by about half for a few months and nothing about my behavior or beliefs significantly changed. I did nap more but that might have been coincidental. That’s about it.

I think most people like the guys you mentioned are just assholes regardless of their testosterone levels.

Oglaf made me into the person I am today.

No apology necessary, I didn’t even think of it as trauma dumping. Sometimes things just come up and I think that’s okay.

Enjoy your gummies!

If I may be blunt, I don’t think that’s because your ex is NT. It sounds like your ex is just an abusive asshole. I’m sorry you had to deal with their abuse.

It’s true. They think we’re boring, we think they’re boring. I remember dating a definitely NT person and was baffled that they never wanted to do deep dives on any topics with me.

Who wouldn’t want to spend all weekend with their partner learning about the history of weaving and how various textile related machinery works, then cap it off by marathon playing Loom in robes?! Weirdos.

I’ll save you a click, here’s the summary from the author, edits and emphasis mine:

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